Relationships

• Have clear preferences and act on them.
• Trust your own intuition while being open to other’s opinions.
• Have excited interest in self-enhancing hobbies and activities.
• See your partner as stimulating your excitement, not as causing it.
• Only do favors you choose to do (you can say “no”).
• Appreciate feedback and can distinguish it from attempts to manipulate.
• Integrate sex so that you can enjoy it but never at the cost of your integrity.
• Are always aware of choices.
• Insist others’ boundaries be as safe as your own.
• Are living a life that mostly approximates what you always wanted for yourself.
• Mostly feel secure and clear.
• Protect your privacy without having to lie or without having to take pains to hide things.